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  • 性教育:要從幼兒開始  性,向來為人們所忌諱,所迴避。至今仍難以用一顆平常之心去對待。特別是不少父母認為和孩子討論性問題,不僅難以啟齒,有失 長輩尊嚴,即使對待孩子的性知識的提問,也總是遮遮掩掩,答非所問。不少人以為性教育只是對青春期的孩子進行的,其實不然。  一位戀物癖的男性,21歲,工作和學習都很好,唯一的毛病是一見到女性的乳房就喪失了理智。有一天他在遊樂場時毛病突發,去 觸摸好幾位女性,被擒獲後,他以侮辱婦女罪被判勞教。為此他也很痛苦,發誓痛改前非,但釋放後不幾天,他又重蹈覆轍了。經他自己 的敘述後,心理醫生對其進行了分析,原來,在他小的時候,由於其母身體不好使奶水不足,從而抹殺了他吃奶的權力。他就這樣從來也 沒有吃過母親的一口奶,他對別的孩子偎在母親懷中吃奶更是羨慕不已。由此,對女性的乳房產生了極大的興趣。在他三四歲時,有一天 見到母親午睡時露出了乳房,就上前去撫弄,不想卻被母親痛罵了一頓,於是進一步強化了對女性乳房的一份神秘感。成人後發作,形成 了不能自控的變態心理。  精神分析學的創始人弗洛伊德指出:「兒童發展的早期經驗將成為決定個體日後行為方式的重要因素。嬰兒時期對一個人性格的形成 有非常大的作用,特別是嬰幼兒受到挫折的時候,這種早期的心理挫折對他的性格會產生終生的影響。」專家說,如果當初這位母親不是 痛罵,而是主動告訴孩子,媽媽身體不好,沒有奶水,所以沒能讓你吃上媽媽的奶;甚至應該經常讓孩子試著吃幾口,經常讓他撫摸一下 ,這樣孩子就不會感到好奇,不至於心理上受到壓抑,導致成人後的性變態。  據資料表明,患性變態的病人中,常回憶幼年時經歷,有88%的病人在幼齡時期遭受過性困擾和折磨。這與幼年期大人的家教方法 不當有一定的聯繫。著名性教育專家阮芳賦說過:「性教育的關鍵時期,是幼兒時期。孩子在周圍環境影響下,對事物的各種觀念開始逐 漸形成,其中包括性觀念、性態度,如性道德標準。」家長們要抓住這個關鍵時期,有意識地對孩子進行性教育,盡早建造健全的人格。  有關專家提出,幼兒接受性教育的主要途徑是潛移默化,將正確的性觀念慢慢融入孩子的思想行為之中。首先來說,通過穿衣打扮, 購買玩具,兒童遊戲等方式自然地培養出孩子的性別角色意識後,再按社會的道德規範點滴地培養孩子的角色規範,但不要過分強調性別 之間的差異,比如衣著的過分妖艷等。另外,要正確回答處理孩子提出的性疑問,比如三四歲的孩子問:「媽媽,我是從哪兒來的?」有 的父母一時難以解釋便隨口說「路邊撿來的」或「從胳肢窩裡生下來的」等等。這樣的回答,顯然不夠科學。可直接說:「是從媽媽的肚 子裡生出來的。」若孩子再問則可說:「媽媽的肚裡有個叫子宮的地方,你在那裡長了十個月後,在爸爸的陪伴下去醫院才把你生出來的 。」對幼兒玩弄性器官,觀看裸體,孩子之間的性遊戲,不要大驚小怪,嚴加訓斥;要順其自然,用巧妙的方法使孩子轉移注意力,從而 在不覺中就得以停止。否則,大人異常的表現會給孩子留下神秘、可怕、甚至下流的錯誤印象,造成性心理的障礙。  幼兒是性教育的起點。從小讓其形成對性的自然態度,樹立起健康、積極、正面的性觀念,於孩子的一生有著重要的現實意義。

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Perfect sex life


A full sex life should include the three stages of foreplay during sexual intercourse and after play. These three stages is not only indispensable, and each stage has its specific requirements related to the physical, mental and skill, only to meet these requirements, or to master these skills, sex life can be perfect, otherwise there will always be make the intention of the Department.

Foreplay is like the sports activities of the warm-up match, or official intercourse preparation activities, the initial stage of the sexual activity is to develop emotional, improve arousal extent to wait for the physical and psychological changes, until the process of intercourse.

Foreplay before the start of the visual can appreciate the spouse of the body and stimulate sexual arousal, sweet, provocative language can also be fueled special body odor or perfume can also cause sexual desire, the beginning of the play, except as to listen. sense of smell, touch and play a greater role of sexual stimulation, can also say that the real sexual contact, based on touch as a core, a variety of foreplay action combination, step by step, from junior to senior, must not one step.

Foreplay is generally began to kiss, neck, chest, abdomen, until the reproductive organs, embracing especially such as touch throughout the entire body, erogenous zone area, the final regardless of kiss or touch should be focused on the penis and clitoris The clitoral stimulation is more important, because most women can achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation. Before the completion of play indicator is excited men and women are highly sexual male penis full erection, full lubrication of the female vagina ready for sex.

During sexual intercourse is the core of the entire sex life, the key is still the close cooperation between the two sides, and during sexual intercourse. The techniques of sexual intercourse men should always do the continuity of tics that can be formed to focus on to stimulate the female to take the initiative to cooperate with, the sense of pleasure in the sexual intercourse should respond, and verbal response on the action of the male is the guide is also to encourage. Intercourse posture changes on both sides of the pleasure is very important, because different parts of different position on the stimulation of the vagina, male on female lower position on the clitoris is often indirect stimulation, back-in directly stimulate significantly the G postural changes also make sexual intercourse rich taste, the back can enjoy the fullness of the female arm, men and women under, or face to face to facilitate speech and eye contact, a beautiful face and breasts straight into the eye to replace sexual intercourse position, briefly and without stimulus phase for men with premature ejaculation can serve the purpose of delayed ejaculation, so combined with postural changes, really perfect, natural and smooth.

colorsorg 提到...

Orgasm is often the ultimate goal of sexual intercourse, but because of its different manifestations, not the pursuit of consistent or perfect, and do not believe that simultaneous orgasm is the best state, usually to achieve orgasm females first reach sexual influx of male slightly good, because very few men reach orgasm, then Ms. priority.

After the drama in recent years the importance attached by the sexologist gradually, after play is necessary, views gradually converge, but time is short or long, if both husband and wife to achieve orgasm, and tired, this time after the play has not important after a brief kiss, caress after their own sleep. If women did not reach full sexual satisfaction, or do not achieve orgasm, especially to achieve vaginal orgasm, ejaculation in the male they, like a mass of brightly burning flames of extreme sexual arousal, if the men at this time to sleep, they are allocated a pot of cold water in the fire, disheartened, and even aversion to sexual intercourse, so after the play is actually the right of women to appease process. Women did not reach orgasm through touching or kissing to achieve clitoral orgasm, or through verbal communication, body caressing gradually female sexual excitement from strong to weak, and sometimes women need for affection is better than sex needs, so the men do not fail to praise the women's words, the critical moment a top ten thousand.

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